In Memory of Sharon: A Birthday Breakfast

Top left: Bob Heindl organizes tickets for the Gathering’s Breakfast Program; Top right: Sam hands out silverware in the serving line; Bottom: 7/22 Sharon’s birthday breakfast sausage and eggs

Top left: Bob Heindl organizes tickets for the Gathering’s Breakfast Program; Top right: Sam hands out silverware in the serving line; Bottom: 7/22 Sharon’s birthday breakfast sausage and eggs

The morning of July 22nd, 2014, the Gathering celebrated a special meal in memory of Sharon Heindl. Sharon passed away a little over four years ago from breast cancer. Her husband, Bob, has been a dedicated volunteer at the Gathering for over 7 years and has most recently taken on a position as a member of the Board of Directors. On July 22nd, Sharon’s birthday, the Heindls sponsored a breakfast meal complete with eggs and sausage and volunteered their time in honor of her.

For Bob and his family, the Gathering has been an important ministry. Bob and Sharon used to travel to work together and swap stories about the Gathering. 


“I thought it would be a good thing. I believe that people who have been blessed in life have an obligation to give something back—to life, and to other people.


Bob continued, “So it worked out well that I could drop her [Sharon] off at the office downtown, and then I could just slide in here and volunteer one day a week. Because she worked, she never could volunteer here, but she was very interested. She enjoyed hearing the stories…she didn’t know the people but she knew of them through the stories.”

After Sharon passed away, Bob remembered one of the conversations they had about the Gathering and this conversation sparked an idea that has turned into a beautiful tradition.

“Well my wife got breast cancer and went through all the surgery and chemo and radiation and she died a little over four years ago. The first year after she died I was a little too torn up at that time. But I think it was the second year after she died that I remember a conversation she and I had where I talked about how we used to have eggs once a week at the Gathering and that wasn’t happening anymore. I distinctly remember this conversation, because she worded her response kind of strangely, she said, ‘They shall have eggs!’ So I decided that, on her birthday, I wanted to provide eggs to the Gathering. So yeah, in Sharon’s memory and because its something I want to do, it makes me feel good and I’m sure she’s happy about it somewhere – I provide eggs to the Gathering.”

Bob and Sharon’s daughter, Sam, as well as Sharon’s sister Kathy and Bob’s two great-nephews Colin and Jonathan came along to volunteer as well. Together, they served delicious eggs and sausage to almost 200 guests. The Gathering is so thankful for Bob and the Heindl family, and honored to have been a part of Sharon’s life.

Discussion with St. Monica Catholic School Youth

St. Monica Catholic School is committed to “learn, live and love through Jesus.” The school focuses on a holistic approach to education: education of mind, spirit and body. As part of this holistic approach, St. Monica makes it their mission to incorporate hands-on social justice into their schooling. Throughout the past year, eighty-eight 7th and 8th grade St. Monica students volunteered with the Gathering’s breakfast program. Each month, the school brought a group down to prepare food, serve the meal and clean up. In May of this year, St. Monica faculty will also be serving a meal.

The students participated in the breakfast program by organizing pastries, preparing toast, wrapping silverware, serving ham, juice, milk, vegetables, fruit, and cleaning up the St. James’ breakfast site after the meal. They are a committed and eager group of students who was not afraid to jump into the experience head first.

They were also not afraid to share their experience with me openly and honestly. We had the opportunity to sit down with six students from St. Monica: Maura (7th grade), Laney (8th grade), Madeline (8th grade), Blase (7th grade), Charlie (7th grade) and Matthew (7th grade). The students spoke with an impressive maturity and depth and had a lot of insight to share during our round table interview. Check out some of what they had to say:

What does The Gathering mean to St. Monica and the Milwaukee community?

Charlie: When we were serving there, there were UWM students, Marquette students, I feel like it brings a lot of the different communities together. It is cool to see how much the community responds and how much they want to pitch in.

Maura: It’s not solving the world hunger problem, but it’s the small things that make such a difference in Milwaukee.

Charlie: Yeah, I think it’s important because, you know, all the years we are at St. Monica you have the aspect of learning about community service and helping others. This gave us an opportunity to actually put it into real life – and thats important. A good learning experience as well as something good that we do in our faith.

Blase: Yeah, I agree – it’s something we should do as Catholics, as Christians, something that you should do more than once. It makes you appreciate everything that you have. Some people have to come to shelters and meal programs to get food, we get to go home and have dinner waiting for us on the table.

Matthew: We live in an area where we don’t really get the sense of poverty. There is really no one in our neighborhoods who is struggling to eat, or anything like that. It really gave you a sense that there are actually people out there, fairly close to home that are struggling.

So, what is the link between faith and serving at The Gathering?

Maura: We learn a lot about Catholic Social Teaching and one of the questions in our reflection was what different parts of Catholic Social Teaching (CST) apply to this experience – I was surprised at how many different components did relate.

Madeline: I think it was a good experience to learn what CST actually is instead of just reading about it. When you actually go and see how many people are doing it, it’s pretty different.

Laney: Yeah, I’ve been here 10 years and I’ve done so much service, we’ve always done it in school and never gone outside and done it, so it was cool to travel.

What is one thing you learned from your experience with The Gathering?

Laney: I learned that even though people don’t have as much, they can be so happy. We want the latest and newest technology, but some people don’t even have a phone, or a home, but they’re happy.

Charlie: I learned that they’re real people. Just like you and I. When you think of a “homeless person,” you sometimes think of someone so foreign from us, but they’re relatable and just humans like us.

Maura: I learned that I should be a lot more positive. It made me really happy to see people being happy.

Blase: I learned that happiness does not come from objects, or all the things we have, it comes from other people. We were serving those people and that brought happiness inside of all of us. They don’t have a lot of things in their possession and still, most of them are still positive and happy and liked to see us working there. They smiled at us and everything.

Madeline: I learned that even though people don’t have as much as us, they’re still like us. They want to be treated the same, they don’t want to be treated differently and they treat you the same way as they treat their friends. We’re all equals.

Matthew: I learned, when you go to big cities, on street corners you see people sleeping on park benches, you see that they’re living in poverty. You see that in big cities like Chicago or DC, but, once you serve at the Gathering it really shows you there is actual poverty in your hometown.

 

Laney, Charlie, Maura, Blase, Madeline, Matthew and all of the St. Monica students and faculty promote the Gathering’s mission of serving the hungry and homeless in community. Their desire to put faith into action is important and we are thankful that there is a school that teaches this practice, even at a young age. We look forward to continuing our work with St. Monica.

2014 Gathering Golf Classic Recap

We raised $20,138.73! Our most successful Golf Classic to date!

At 1:30 on the dot, the sun came out from behind the rain clouds and shined down on the 75 golfers as they headed to their assigned tees. The Gathering’s 8th annual Golf Classic was held at Elkhorn’s Evergreen Golf Course on Monday, June 23. Over the years this special event has generated $112,787 for the Gathering’s work. The dollars raised this year were the most ever, thanks to the generosity of our major sponsors. Dollars were also raised from registration fees, wine ring toss, and a raffle offering everything from a Kindle Fire to a Brewers’ Tailgate. Sponsors and raffle donors are listed on the next page.

After the event, Cathy Stagmer, Manager-Global Community Relations for Joy Global (a Gold Sponsor since 2008) stated, I’m glad the event was the success you hoped it would be. Our golfers had a great time. One of the members of our foursome was new to the company and new to the Gathering. He was very impressed with you as an organization and passionate about the work you do to serve our community. We look forward to joining you on the greens again next year!”

The view from the hole-in-one tee at Evergreen Golf Club in Elkhorn, WI

The view from the hole-in-one tee at Evergreen Golf Club in Elkhorn, WI

Holz Chevrolet supplied the car for our hole-in-one, but, alas it was not won. Other winners included Cameron Brady – longest drive; John Gardipee – longest putt; Dan Kiernan – closest to the pin; Muldoon (Tom)/Wiesneth/Rogaczewski/Rogaczewski foursome - highest score (last place); Morrison/Brady/Wickett/Sievert foursome - lowest score (1st place). Thanks to The Gathering’s Board of Directors who drive this event and to Gathering staff for their support work. Mark your calendars for next year – Monday, June 22! We would love to have you join us.

The talented golf foursome from Joy Global, one of the event's gold sponsors

The talented golf foursome from Joy Global, one of the event's gold sponsors

Mike takes a swing

Mike takes a swing

Special Thanks to our 2014 Gathering Golf Classic Sponsors and Raffle Donors

Double Gold Sponsors:

CHUCK & EILEEN STONER

Gold Sponsors:

ZACHER TRUCKING SERVICES

Silver Sponsors:

Law Office of Eugene E. Detert, Mel & David Johnson, Mike & Ginny McBride, Milwaukee Capital, Inc., Ab Nicholas

Hole Sponsors:

Advocacy Investment LLC (1)

Anytime Fitness Sussex (2)

BE Repaired Auto and Truck (1)

Data Financial, Inc. (1)

Steve & Ricka Long (1)

Harry & Ellie Moseley (1)

Nordco, Inc. (2)

Ruby Isle Auto (1)

Weber & Rick, S.C. (1)

Wixon, Inc. (1)

Raffle and Prize Donors:

Anodyne Coffee Roasting Mike & Sue Carnahan

Charles Allis Villa Terrace Art Museum Colectivo Discovery World Doubletree by Hilton Florentine Opera

Fred Astaire Dance Company Friends of Boerner Botanical Gardens German Fest Green Bay Packers

Mel & David Johnson

Joy Global

Klement’s Sausage

Lakefront Brewery

Jim Leurquin

Lowe’s – Franklin Store

Lucille’s Rockin’ Pianos

Mike & Ginny McBride

Menards

Milwaukee Admirals

Milwaukee Brewers

Milwaukee Bucks

Milwaukee County Parks

Milwaukee Irish Festivals

Milwaukee Public Museum

Milwaukee Repertory Theatre

Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra

Milwaukee World Festival

Next Act Theatre

Polish Fest

Present Music

PRP Wine International

Sazerac

Ginny Schrag

Six Flags Great America

Skydive Milwaukee

Sprecher Brewing Company

Transfer Pizzeria

Teresa Trostmiller

Wisconsin Athletic Club

Wisconsin Hospitality Group

Check out all of our golfers from the event! Thanks to everyone who came out and golfed - we had a great time.

Not pictured: Joe, Som, Michael and Bill

Camron, Mike, Chris and Shane - golfers extraordinaire

Camron, Mike, Chris and Shane - golfers extraordinaire

Greg, Ben, Mike and Tom - Showing off their golfing prowess

Greg, Ben, Mike and Tom - Showing off their golfing prowess

Ray, Jim, Lisa and Deb - go for the hole-in-one

Ray, Jim, Lisa and Deb - go for the hole-in-one

George, Kyle, Carl, Bob - golfing up a storm

George, Kyle, Carl, Bob - golfing up a storm

Bob, Patrick and Bill - golf their way to the top

Bob, Patrick and Bill - golf their way to the top

Jim, Jason, Darin and Rolf - golf as great as their style

Jim, Jason, Darin and Rolf - golf as great as their style

David, Bob, Hap and Dan - a committed foursome

David, Bob, Hap and Dan - a committed foursome

Janice, George, Mike and Ginny - gettin' it on the green

Janice, George, Mike and Ginny - gettin' it on the green

Gunnar, Tucker, Jim and Candace - show off their serious golf skills

Gunnar, Tucker, Jim and Candace - show off their serious golf skills

Clark, Kathy, John and Terri - So good, they're practically pro

Clark, Kathy, John and Terri - So good, they're practically pro

John, Dick, Dick and Joe - a talented golf foursome

John, Dick, Dick and Joe - a talented golf foursome

Jeff, Cindy, Mike and Mike - Got great swings

Jeff, Cindy, Mike and Mike - Got great swings

Wayne, Jim, Jeff and Kyle - formidable golfing opponents

Wayne, Jim, Jeff and Kyle - formidable golfing opponents

Scott, Dave, Greg and Mark - They know how to drive a ball

Scott, Dave, Greg and Mark - They know how to drive a ball

Gene, Brian, Dennis and Brandon - Golfing in style

Gene, Brian, Dennis and Brandon - Golfing in style

Mike, Jon and Everett - Taking care of the course

Mike, Jon and Everett - Taking care of the course

Scott, Hank, Brian and Randy from Zacher Truck Service

Scott, Hank, Brian and Randy from Zacher Truck Service

FUEL Milwaukee Adopts the Gathering

In February, FUEL Milwaukee adopted the Gathering as part of their Adopt-A-Nonprofit program. FUEL Milwaukee is a community engagement network that seeks to connect young professionals to organizations serving Milwaukee.

Every year, FUEL’s Creative Council selects a number of nonprofits to partner with through their Adopt-A-Nonprofit program. Through this program, the Council works to promote each non-profit through various events including a launch event (200+participants), social events and volunteering/fundraising efforts. The benefits include publicity, education about the nonprofit, and a large volunteer base of professionals with all types of networks. So far, this partnership has been very rewarding for the Gathering—bringing in new volunteers, raising awareness and helping us spread our mission!

One of the Gathering’s Creative Council partners, Corrie, explained the importance of the program. “The Adopt-a-Nonprofit is my favorite part of FUEL and the Creative Council. Without FUEL, I probably wouldn’t know about half of the needs of our city. The opportunity to learn about what great work is being done is one thing but to be able to be part of that great work is priceless. That’s the benefit of Adopt-a-Nonprofit, you connect to people, places and organizations you might not have on your own, to make a difference right here in the city of Milwaukee.”

Special thanks to Corrie and Kara, FUEL’s creative council members who elected to work with the Gathering, Tiffany, Tara and Gathering Board Members. These indiviudals have already put in a great deal of time, talent and energy towards the partnership. We look forward to more social and volunteer events with FUEL, and we hope to welcome more FUEL members into the Gathering family.

Learn more about FUEL Milwaukee and the adopt-a-nonprofit program.

Giver’s Honor Roll

THE GATHERING BOARD OF DIRECTORS THANKS THE FOLLOWING GENEROUS SUPPORTERS WHO GAVE $250 OR MORE BETWEEN FEBRUARY 1, 2014 AND APRIL 30, 2014.

 

$10,000 - $14,999 EFSP Phase XXX Allocation

$5,000 - $9,999 Helen Bader Foundation Stackner Family Foundation Charles and Eileen Stoner United Way of Greater Milwaukee Donor Choice

$1,000 - $2,499 1 Anonymous Donor Grainger Foundation Hunger Relief Fund of Wisconsin Hindu Temple of Wisconsin St. Joan of Arc Parish Gary and Maureen Shebesta

$500 - $999 2 Anonymous Donors Eugene Detert Gathering Memorial Fund -The Greater Milwaukee Foundation Greendale Community Church David and Mel Johnson Northwestern Mutual Foundation Reader's Digest Foundation St. Jude Congregation - Wauwatosa Eugene and Carmen Witt

$250 - $499 3 Anonymous Donors Vincent and Linda Dindzans Faith United Church of Christ - Slinger Frederick and Susan Kasten Herbert H. Kohl Charities Michael McClone

2014 Volunteer Celebration

 by Ginny Schrag

Every year, the Gathering holds an event to celebrate our volunteers and honor those who have reached milestones in their service with us. This year’s celebration was held on the evening of March 27th at Evolution Gastro Pong (formerly Spin Milwaukee) in the Third Ward. This table tennis and dining venue offers space to nonprofits at no charge. Over 100 Gathering volunteers took advantage of the four available ping pong tables and the catered food and beverages.

Between 1,500 and 2,000 volunteers work with the Gathering each year, cooking, coordinating serving groups, preserving produce, serving meals, cleaning and painting, answering phones, guiding the agency through board service, conducting fundraisers, and so much more.

To our volunteers: without you there would be no Gathering. You build the community and maintain the hospitality so important to serving our guests with respect and dignity. Thank you!

The 2013 Volunteer Award Recipients are listed below. Special thanks to Lisa Yanzer for all of the event’s photographs pictured throughout this newsletter and on our website. 

Friend of the Gathering Awards – Outstanding Service

Hindu Temple of Wisconsin, Jim Leurquin, St. James Episcopal Church, Weekday On-Site Collaborations (Homeless Outreach Nursing Center, Legal Aid Society & Lucy Cooper, St. Ben’s Medical Clinic)

George and Craig

George and Craig

George Greene Award Given for exceptional service by a guest turned volunteer:  Craig Burrow, Breakfast Program

Serving Groups - Milestones reached in 2013 for # of times served

  • 15+       Faith Community Congregational Church, Mt. Calvary Lutheran School
  • 25+       Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church
  • 35+       Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church
  • 50+       St. Boniface Episcopal Church, YouthWorks
  • 65+       University Lake School
  • 75+       North Shore Presbyterian Church, St. Christopher’s Episcopal Church, St. John Vianney Firm Believers
  • 85+       St. Rafael Catholic School, UWM Center for Community-Based Learning, Leadership and Research
  • 150+   Emanuel United Church of Christ
  • 275+    St. Anne’s Serving Team
  • 325+    Marquette University High School

Produce Preservation - Milestones reached in 2013 for # of times served

  • 10+     Char Radke, Jane Shero, Michelle Talhami
  • 25+      Eileen Duffey

Individual Awards – Milestones reached in 2013 for # ofyears served:

  • 3 Years:   Tom Sromek, Shayla Sromek, Shirley Bankier, Jennifer Thomas, Sue Hanser, Brian Genduso, Cindy Kaja, Rob Krecak, Robert MacDonald
  • 5 Years:   Velma Foster, Kathy Sween, Noni Guddie, Judy Linsley, Dan Linsley, Camille Austin, Tricia Trexell, Marie Daniels, Sandra Hickman, Valecia Watson
  • 10 Years:   Cheri Grambo
  • 15 Years:   Gene Detert, Julie Mercer
  • 20 Years:   Bob Nakamura, Pat Steppe
  • 25 Years:   Marge Gundrum
Dan, Natalia and Miriam accept the award for St. Rafael Catholic School

Dan, Natalia and Miriam accept the award for St. Rafael Catholic School